Entry: Show's Over Saturday, July 15, 2006



She apologised.

This is her email:

"I owe you an apology. I would have written it earlier, but I have been busy, and needed a little time to cool off after some really disgusting comments. You may disagree, but I think it is unfair for these people to judge my entire personality on one post.

Yes, I did write a dumb, mean post. But as I have said, and still strongly stand by, I have nothing against you. I wouldn't call myself a fan of your blog, but it's decent. It isn't contentless, nor winding and boring.
 
I don't have much time, so please bear with the incoherence of this.
 
Also, I would like to congratulate you on the seemingly high amount of good friends you have.
 
I'm not one to add frills to things I say, but here is an apology. I'm sorry. What I said was uncalled for, but I also think the reaction to it was blown up some.
 
I'll leave you to decide whether you want the posts to stay on or be deleted."


I decided for the posts to stay so that we can all see how it began and how it ended.

Look, I didn't at all in my post criticized her physically or hurled physical insults at her save for the title but that's what a woman who is angered will usually scream.

I do not appreciate it that uncalled insults were hurled at her. If you wanted to criticize, it would have been nice if it was constructive. Insulting her family and all that, that's totally unneccessary.

I think it is very big of her to send me that email and I am sincerely moved. I want all of you to feel it too.

I cannot deny that I was not expecting her to rebutt in a grand fashion, which I would have left her to have the last say, if she did. Because this is not a blog war. I never intended it to be a blog war.

Therefore, it's more than I can ever ask with her apologizing to me in that manner.

I thank everybody who has showed so much support but some were rather overwhelming and left me squirming in my seat. I think there were too many unnecessary bashing on her looks.

Comments directed to her about the way she blogged about me, that was what I wanted when I was angry. Not about HER face/family.

It's like I'm the face who launched a thousand ships. In a totally different way though.

it'll be nice if all of you who commented can go over there and tell her that it was nice of her to come forward to email me. I really appreciated that. (and yes, I replied.)

She's the bigger person now. So I would say that I'm dropping this and from her email, I know that she would drop this and put it behind her as well.

Editted: Now that the Skyler issue is over, look at my tagboard again. :) Someone's not giving up. And all the bloggers, faster put on your make up and go get a hair cut or something coz that limpeh louboh wants to launch an ugliestblogger website. lol. launch lah. As if you'll get support. Damn stupid. *shakes head*

   15 comments

kennysia
July 19, 2006   02:35 PM PDT
 
Eh. What did I miss?

*munches on popcorn*
Whimsical
July 18, 2006   01:24 PM PDT
 
I did not find any comments in Jolene's blog which insulted her family (tho I may have missed some the response were massive). Seemingly I am the only one who made reference to her family, in which I wish to clarify - I said "If I was related to her ..."

I wish to make clear that I meant no insult to her family whatsoever, the reason to the statement was because I saw a picture she posted up on her blog of her aunt where the caption read "I like xxx because she makes me look good". Which is why if I am related to her (which I ain't) I would have slapped her silly. To insult others is bad enough, but to humiliate your own family publicly is just too much.

However if my comments appeared deragotry to her family I wish to apologise, as I meant no such insult.
Jayelle
July 16, 2006   03:09 PM PDT
 
siowmay: heh make peace not war.:) *hugs* thanks!

dr.tan: heh, apalah caught in the middle all?:P

djck: ehhehe.. our grandchildren?:P thanks dear*hugssnkisses*

Va: :) yeah, you do understand. girls maybe strong, but no matter what, kena kutuk for one's looks is still hurtful

kwokuang: haha thanks for dropping by. So when are you gonna lose your other virginity?;D or have you already..ahem.. now that i've no seeen you for so many months?:P

(: : awwww...thank you :)

jb_beng: hahahaha dun la call urself beng.;P of coz i know who u are. who else from Jb will visit my blog? hahaha *hugs*

CaL: LOL.. oh please. you think we're so gangsta ? but then the thought of kennysia's miri school fight came to my head. *bash*Bash* "NI you MEI YOU BLOG??? NI YOU MEI YOU BLOG????"

lol lol



caL
July 16, 2006   02:22 PM PDT
 
hey jolene. sorry for being so slow to reply to this as my pc was in the shop.

i read the post, and after all that, at least she had some niceness to say sorry. still can't believe someone could post something like that though.

the last thing we want during a blog meet is a blogger fight yea? =)
jb_beng
July 16, 2006   05:18 AM PDT
 
I do suppose you've figured out who i am by now haven't you?

I STILL loudly proclaim :
I LOVE JOLENE LAI!!!

*bear hug emoticon*
(:
July 15, 2006   08:47 PM PDT
 
you're pretty in every way.
enough said~

take care always!
kwo kuang
July 15, 2006   05:33 PM PDT
 
aw shit man....just as it was getting fun and now it's all over? but i didn't even get my chance pound the dude who's been thrash talking you.
wow look jo, i lost my virginity on your blog. i ACTUALLY commented.
all the best for your exams
Va
July 15, 2006   02:38 PM PDT
 
hey girl.. was rather sad for u after reading your previous post, and was waiting for you to online hoping to chat with you via msn to ask if you're alright. But i guess you must be busy with you exams..so yeah, it was a sigh of relief to hear that everything is all over...I can truly feel what you went through, as we all know that what she commented is the last thing a girl would wanna be critisized on...

anyhow, good luck in your exams and take care

=)
DJCK
July 15, 2006   04:31 AM PDT
 
to live, forgive and forget. No men (and women) should fought again for what happened in the past.

This would be an interesting grandchildren story though..

I love you bi and can't wait to see you again.

Dr. Tan
July 15, 2006   04:30 AM PDT
 
Glad things are ok now. It'll be hard for us being caught in the middle. Well its not that I know her well, but still...
siowmay
July 15, 2006   04:02 AM PDT
 
aite...good thing she apologised...at least she realised after like so many comments bombed that post of hers.

anyways,you're always so kind. :P
not that i'm evil...:P

ppl apologise,must accept..mama teach wan..hahaha

good that things are gettin better !

all the best in exam!
Jayelle
July 15, 2006   03:36 AM PDT
 
giant sotong: :) i'm gonna blog about boys and papayas. stay tuned!

ivan: i thought it got pretty ugly. but at least it was only for a day.

cameron: no worries:) i was wearing shoes. didn't really hurt. :) cheers!
cameron
July 15, 2006   03:25 AM PDT
 
:)

good to know.

probably stepped on a few of your mates feet along the way, so i guess i should apologize as well... fact that i stepped (stomped?) on a few feet then decided to go sit somewhere and let it blow over probably made it worse too.

stil..

agree with what you said... guess bashing was done indiscriminately... i guess we on her side wouldnt have said so much if things din't get outta hand...

still...
put it behind us.

we aint here to war.

so... here's my apologies if i did step on yah.
ivan
July 15, 2006   02:48 AM PDT
 
glad things turn out ok. wouldn't want things to turn ugly
Giant Sotong
July 15, 2006   02:32 AM PDT
 
Goodie! Let's put it all behind us and blog about chocolate! Good weekend!

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