Entry: Skyler, You're Such A Bitch Thursday, July 13, 2006



The Story: Someone went up to Skyler in Times Square sometime during the weekend before the 29th of June and asked her if she was me. She took it as a very very offensive thing and proceeded to do an extremely long post saying that she is so insulted because I'm the ugliest blogger she has ever seen and no, she has nothing against my blog, my personality NOR my character..just that she's so insulted someone actually thought she looked like me.

link

I know you said that you did not post up any links because you don't want to humiliate so-and-so blogger.

But guess what? So-and-so blogger found out.

You can go and laugh and deny and say, "Oh please, what makes you think it's about YOU?" but I'll cut the whole thing short for you by telling you I have my ways.

And also, someone tipped me off in the previous entry's comment box. Actually not just someone. A few have already told me about the post. I asked a few of those who commented in that post, and they confirmed that it was me.

Besides, there was a mention about the ugly blogger camwhoring with an alarm clock. That SO totally gave it away.

You didn't post up my link yet you continuously tried to fan your ego up by asking your MSN contacts if you are prettier than me and surely you distributed my link to whoever who was interested.

I understand that you are upset because someone thought you looked like me. As deluded as you are about how you yourself look, I myself wouldn't be very happy if someone likens me to another ugly girl(and this is not directed to you. I don't go around insulting other people's physical attributes.) even if I'm not the definition of beauty myself. These things can be done without.

But you know what hurts most?

When you indulged and laughed whole heartedly at the fact that your friends think that I'm ugly, fat, look like a man, flabby etc. It's like you get such a thrill from knowing that I'm way uglier than you are.

And that you even SAVED some of my photos with the intention of comparing it to your own face on your blog. Really, skyler. Really.

I can laugh off a short paragraph or two. Feel hurt and all yes. But not too much.

But to have a whole post going on and on and on about YOU being insulted that someone mistook you for me? And the fact that you need to reassure yourself that I'm every bit as horrible as all that was said about me?

It says alot about your own self esteem.

Nice one, Skyler, nice one. How old are you again? 17? I see.

Reading your comments from that post, no, your blog is not THAT insignificant to me. I've read it a couple of times and snorted at how obnoxious you are, rolled my eyes and gingerly clicked the x button to close the browser after that. Heard about you from a few others, not nice things obviously.

p/s: I'd really appreciate it if the person who mistook skyler for me at Times Square can leave a comment or email me. Nothing, just curious.

p/ss: compared to that limpeh troll(who we shall ignore because he is lame. not fun to stand up to also.)..I don't want to sound like a whiny bitch. But I cannot take this lying down. I have to stand up for myself.

But now that I've said what I've wanted to say, I'm moving on.

Editted: After a chat with a very wise friend of mine, I was about to heed her advice about closing the comments feature. But I think I will take the other approach. I'm not going to reply the comments because I have a strong feeling that after while my views will distort when I do reply each and every remark and I might ignite other going-ons. I'll still leave the feature on.

   65 comments

Fird
December 24, 2008   12:34 AM PST
 
Fear the internet archive! You can remove your post but the archive was there!

http://web.archive.org/web/20060720092027/http://skylerfys.blogspot.com/2006/06/i-am-convinced-i-need-plastic-surgery.html
stefie
July 20, 2006   08:52 PM PDT
 
hye just a passerby. i read skyler's blog with utter distaste. all i can say is, forget immature 17 year old girls like her. you keep your head up high and know that you're BEAUTIFUL! gosh i so hate self absorbed people who think the world revolves around them. gah!!
Gerard
July 17, 2006   12:30 AM PDT
 
That's so immature, typical for a 17 year old wanna-be. Such an entry only proves what a snob she is.Enough said, cheer up girl~
Gerard
July 17, 2006   12:30 AM PDT
 
That's so immature, typical for a 17 year old wanna-be. Such an entry only proves what a snob she is.Enough said, cheer up girl~
Fird
July 16, 2006   08:03 PM PDT
 
I just don't know why is she insulted because someone thought she was you.

That's all.

Some people really have problems when they have too much self-esteem.
Adam
July 16, 2006   03:51 PM PDT
 
I love blog wars. So interesting as sompared to all the lame posts (including mine) especially if girls are involved. They can get so bitchy. BTW, you are beautiful.
kellster
July 15, 2006   08:41 AM PDT
 
hi you don't know me but I do know who u are. seen u around. and that i know your from smdj. anyways just wanted to comment on the limpeh fella. i laughed so hard when u said he was going 2 launch that website.

need i say more?
Loser seem to be the sufficient word for the person. lol

take care JL.
p/s do visit my blog if u have the time too.
Jayelle
July 15, 2006   04:15 AM PDT
 
better leave this permalink everywhere accessible..

http://jayelleenelial.blogdrive.com/archive/583.html

*hugs to everybody who commented*

*kisses to my dear bf in the comment prior to this* .hehe, when we gonna start filming the subang story, dear?
DJCK
July 15, 2006   04:06 AM PDT
 
And I thought I could be the first few who commented on this entry... Sigh...

I love you bi, and I'm so proud of you for not blasting her back badly. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Jus Like what khong said, I have the entire Singapore scholars and friends to back you up. And of course, Me myself and I.

I will not always be there for you, but I know you can fend yourself rationally, and for that I'm proud of you. I love you.

You're beeeeutiffuull, gorgeous, witty and all that is to make a great person that is you.

Tsk tsk kids these days, looks like our 'Subang' Story can get even more interesting huh? :P
Iris
July 15, 2006   02:57 AM PDT
 
Be better by not fighting back.
It's better to just ignore;)

sarah
July 15, 2006   12:39 AM PDT
 
*HUGS*

i am so disgusted by her personality. we love you, so pls don't take what she has post to heart. she's yet another insecure girl trying to prove she;s better than everyone. who cares.
aD'
July 15, 2006   12:20 AM PDT
 
I would be a vegan to see Jolene Lai Pei Shan naked! It's a privilege! nuff' said. And K Hong forgot the English Hooligans too.

Anyway, we're all proud of you Miss Lai for not bringing yourself to her level and for the self-confidence and being able to look at things positively. Looks like the training each and every guy in the "group" paid off? Didn't I tell you trading insults is a good thing after all..? Take care and good luck..
Ellone
July 14, 2006   10:32 PM PDT
 
I think u're pretty =) ....
luzzio
July 14, 2006   10:30 PM PDT
 
i love blog wars.

=) the malaysian blogosphere has loads of girl fights.

*meow*

chin up, che. like i always say, its because your blog is famous, u get these kinda things.

no point getting upset over one stupid...erm..*looks at the picture*, horrible, wait...*looks again*...ah. Ew.

anyway. just dont get upset over one person's opinion because look! 51 comments are only 2 are not supportive!

she probably gets her high from "ooooh...i look better than jayelle therefore i can blog better."

lalalala...i'll say it again.

this is why I don't publicize mine in PPS. =/ i'd get about 50 blogs saying its illegal to have my face on the net.

reply via msn k? ciao! good luck in exams.
anonymous
July 14, 2006   10:16 PM PDT
 
You all went too far.

In comparison to skyler, really.
Sharlini
July 14, 2006   08:45 PM PDT
 
Just remember...there will come a time when she's sitting in that chair with her mouth open and you're the one with the drill. A little slip of the hand and you could say, "Sorry, I was dazzled by your beauty!"

HAHAHAHA...

All together now, let's sing!
"People are all the same
And we only get judged by what we do
Personality reflects name
And if I'm ugly then
So are you
So are you"
Jon
July 14, 2006   08:16 PM PDT
 
Jolene, make no mistake. I love your way of blogging and I'm not taking a stand against you...

I'm just taking a stand against your fellow supporters who are now harassing Skyler...
eyeris
July 14, 2006   08:06 PM PDT
 
tsk tsk, kids these days... hehe
lips
July 14, 2006   07:01 PM PDT
 
lol. but the point here isnt about your writing, or whether people would still read it, isn't it? i mean, heck, obviously we would. the point is that she wrote that screwed-up post. yeah it hurts. bad. and its cool you've chosen to be the bigger person in this situation :)
it was pretty obvious she was just fishing for compliments. ASKING HER FRIENDS WHO WAS PRETTIER??? SAVING PHOTOS?!! O.o
age cant be a factor. i'm 17, and to me that sounds like what a form 1 kid would do.
but whatever. move along :)
tze
July 14, 2006   06:50 PM PDT
 
aiyah small kid only sumore wanna be like that. sumore she damn ugly lor. i mean you should be the one insulted being compared to her.

k la i shall not stoop down to her level of immaturity. you have so many supporters, that alone should be heartwarming enough to forget little bitches like that. *huggles
thecw
July 14, 2006   06:23 PM PDT
 
alamak.. i think.. think only lar.. she doesnt have a mirror..
Jacey
July 14, 2006   06:00 PM PDT
 
Dia belum matang. Just ignore the kiddy!

We know u are beautiful both internally and externally. We love your natural you :)
singyee
July 14, 2006   05:49 PM PDT
 
hey jolene...u r beautiful ;)
sweat
July 14, 2006   05:32 PM PDT
 
walaoweh damn alot supporters!
i still love you jo although we ain't that close.
i won't say she's mean, prolly she's just feeling very insecure about herself.
which is something u should be proud of! not everyday u get to make ppl feel inferior/insecure ok!
Melly
July 14, 2006   05:16 PM PDT
 
hey, you'll shine if you are beautiful from the inside. People like that is not worth it.
cAnAz
July 14, 2006   03:56 PM PDT
 
Hi..I've been a silent reader for your blog, but this time I can't resist leaving a comment for you. Just ignore this shallow girl. She's just trying to get some cheap publicity, steal your limelight. I don't know how she actually manage to walk around calling herself a girl/woman what-so-ever. That bi*ch..
meowzies
July 14, 2006   03:50 PM PDT
 
i've once stumbled upon your blog and spent the next 5 hours reading through your archives. that's how addicted to your blog i am. =) i love the way you blog. you're so natural and i can just relate to everything you know? so dont pay attention to what skyler says. she's just immature and judges people on how they look on the outside. YOU ROCK MY SOCKS JOLENE!!
A stranger
July 14, 2006   02:09 PM PDT
 
Your blog is one of my favorites even though I don't know you personally. I think your blog is full of life and definitely one of the few blogs that makes me laugh. You might not be hot like Angeline Jolie but what make me admire you the most is your self confidence. Trust me, even the so-called 'pretty' girls would not be able to do what you do with your blog, post pictures of yourself as it is. No make up, no photoshop, no special poses, just you.

She was mean and it was absolutely unnecessary. I know if I were in your shoes, I would not be able to handle the situation with such maturity and you are younger than me. Don't let her get you down, she is not worth it.

Take care.
smuggy
July 14, 2006   01:45 PM PDT
 
jolene!! i am your no.1 fan!!... i'm the one who surfs your blog by searching "jolene's blog" on yahoo everytime!... i don't leave comments usually but this bitch has gone too far... i cannot keep quiet about it! if she needed the attention so much.. she could have just begged you to pimp her!! but i doubt it would work... haha! i love u, your pictures and your blog!
wombok
July 14, 2006   01:40 PM PDT
 
Hey Jayelle,

Read what Skyler had to say and man.. that's nasty.

If you were the person she was referring to, then i can only say that your reply is nothing short of classy. Nice one ;)
esther
July 14, 2006   12:47 PM PDT
 
DUMB ASS KAY HONG FORGOTTEN ABOUT BRISBANE!

anyways, yeah like what mindee said we're always on your side. :)

Whimsical
July 14, 2006   12:23 PM PDT
 
Personally if I am related to her I would slap her silly for being such an obnoxious twat. I don't normally get involved in these sorta disputes but seriously, I feel so disgusted with her. If you want to be bitchy, at least have the credentials to show for it. E.g. "hot" or "happening" or "intelligent" or something. From what I can gather from reading her blog thus far I can only say this:

She is self-absorbed, selfish and spoilt. She is ok-looking, not pretty but her expression creeps me out - GOSH STOP THE IDIOT POSES, it really doesn't suit you!! You don't look cool, you don't even look pleasant!

What makes a woman beautiful is her heart - her beauty really shines through. Worms hanging off it definitely doesn't look cool - seems to me she has larvae embedded in hers.

But then people grow up. Good luck skyler. Hope your looking back when you are 30 does not embarrass you too much.

Jolene I know it is hard to ignore the fact that you were publicly humiliated but look at it this way:

Don't let her bring you down to her level.

*hugs*
Jin
July 14, 2006   11:23 AM PDT
 
Yes, she looks nothing like you. You're too beautiful, inside and out. (GOD, how cliche is that???!!!)
mayzy
July 14, 2006   11:04 AM PDT
 
I must say, she's so ugly inside, no amount of cosmetic surgery will fix it.
minnx
July 14, 2006   10:21 AM PDT
 
yo babes.... just two points

first point: beauty is arbitrary, there is no measure for it.... self-confidence, now that's
SEXY and CHARMING.... and you're all that, plus you know that too!!!

second point: skyler is just being an obnoxious, narcissist bitch for thinking that she's so much prettier than you are... see first point.... she lacks all that!!! let me reemphasize that skyler is an obnoxious narcissist bitch, just because she is!! and seriously, asking frens if you're pretty wouldn't work, because they're your frens and they'll just say what you want to hear to make you happy, cause that's wat frens do..... advice to skyler: to be pretty, you have to know in yourself without a doubt that you are infact pretty. jo, that's what you know by heart!

jo, like k hong said, your frens from all over the world are all here for you, we'll be cheering and supporting and even go to the front lines for you in this awesome bitch fight (not that i'm calling you a bitch, but one bitch in a fight makes it a bitch fight anywayy!!!)

*cheers, have fun with the bitch, i know you're enjoying, since you're not letting it get to you!!! hell i would enjoy it too!! hahaha woot woot

muaxxxers minD
k' hong
July 14, 2006   04:31 AM PDT
 
want me bring people go whack her ? whole subang ready for u. sydney, melbourne imported too.
Jason
July 14, 2006   03:49 AM PDT
 
How can she bully us, veteran bloggers, somemore the offical PPS camwhore queen?!?!

Jayelle, cheer up. I tried my best by doing a little bit, giving you a call. Hope it helps a little bit. :)

Good luck for exam.

Now, off to her blog to shoot her down. Bitch!
Someone
July 14, 2006   03:41 AM PDT
 
I didn't realise it'll get to such astronomical proportions
stranger
July 14, 2006   02:53 AM PDT
 
hey jolene, i'm for u :)
go on doin what u do!
neednt say more i'm sure
byee!
Denisegan
July 14, 2006   02:44 AM PDT
 
hi im sush's friend! i know its kinda weird my leaving a post for u since we dont realli know each other but yeah the previous blog u wrote, and the one skyler wrote got me kinda riled up. i feel u baby (i got called ugly too! hahaha man that realli sucked) skyler realli should watch her mouth cuz itll all come back to her one day =) smile always!
pEisZe
July 14, 2006   02:21 AM PDT
 
omg.. she should look in front of the mirror before she comment about other ppl looks. *tsktsk* after reading her post, i still thinks that she's trying to defend herself and lies to herself that she's actually prettier than u. yiks! she's so totally OFF! she's trying to get attention from everyone now! maybe that's what she wants. wwwdotloserdotcom! I'm on your side, jolene!! *hugs*
elaine
July 14, 2006   02:10 AM PDT
 
hahaha. she's just trying to be like xiaxue. putting others down to make herself feel better. this action itself speaks volume about her own self esteem.

oh yeah, and ppl actually mistaking her for you, shows that u're famous!! heh :P and ppl wanna talk to you!!!

i'm behind you all the way bebeh!! *go jolene!*
jb_beng
July 14, 2006   02:05 AM PDT
 
i would fight ck to the ends of the world for a girlfriend like you.

i have a long list of bad things i wanna do to her, but i've a MUCH longer list of WONDERFUL things i MUST say about the brilliant person you are.

perhaps it should have occurred to most people who can think (ie, US and not her+her dumb friends), that YOU don't need looks.

I proudly proclaim for the 2nd time :
I love Jolene Lai!!!!

She rocks my world!!!
suetmei
July 14, 2006   01:31 AM PDT
 
You're beautiful, in and out. No one can take that away from you.

Forgive her immaturity, you have the world behind you!
FF
July 14, 2006   01:12 AM PDT
 
What a horrible horrible girl that skyler is!

You know we all lubs you very much! :)
Powerpuff
July 14, 2006   01:09 AM PDT
 
Hey Jolene, been reading your blog for ages, first time commenting =)
Remember that you are GORGEOUS inside and out. Don't let these lowlifers make you think otherwise.
Fuck the little airhead!
kai lin
July 14, 2006   01:04 AM PDT
 
oh fuck. I clicked on the link. tiuniasengpukimakchaochibai. she writes bad. who cares how she looks like. she sounds like the semi-retarded child of a crack junkie whose mother doesn't let suck at her nipples.

please Allah, make it go away!

people like that should be banned.

But be nice to her. It's not easy being stupid.
xiao
July 14, 2006   12:41 AM PDT
 
urgh. i stung my eyes reading her blog. As a fellow female, i am just horrified, disgusted and surprisingly, surprised that another female would do something like that.

know that alot of people look up to you, and most of them want to do what they themselves can't. Post any picture of themselves up, regardless of beauty.

And besides, her entire flickr account is full of her camwhore pictures. Back to the eye stinging.
livingmonolith
July 14, 2006   12:11 AM PDT
 
haha, in the end of the day, you just know that the friends around you love you for who you are.

looks change with time but not personality. in years she'll realize she will be left with nothing.

i don't know who you are, or who she is, but i guess it doesn't matter much. ;)
shoee
July 13, 2006   11:56 PM PDT
 
heyas Jolene, i never commented but this time i have to agree, even on the title itself! *huggies* girl, never let her or anyone else for that matter, bring you down cause you rock!

and she does blog like xiaxue, do you notice the resemblance?
Sush
July 13, 2006   11:05 PM PDT
 
I already told you Jo. Her post just shows just HOW mature and nice she actually is. To have the time to do such a thing going around asking everyone just shows how much time she has on her hands. What to do. Some people are just SO insecure.
jean
July 13, 2006   10:51 PM PDT
 
i would turn gay for you. does that speak for itself?
AmAndAserAph
July 13, 2006   10:39 PM PDT
 
dahling, shallow people write a whole goddamn entry about mistaken identity. small minds waste time asking a million and one insignificant questions. "who's prettier? who's fatter? who's got bigger boobs? who's has what and whatnot?"

for her to resort to asking friends their opinion in order to back herself up, to fish for compliments like that and to bring someone else down only shows the kind of person she is. INSECURE and IMMATURE.

you know you are so much better than that, you do what you do that makes you, you. you can't be fucked. i love that, people love that honesty. your readership and quality of posts proves just that.

all that bollocks is just that. bullcrap. you know who you are, you love yourself and PEOPLE LOVE YOU. that is the most important thing. *hugs*

oi reply to my comment can? don't reply others nvm, but mine has priority! =p
Lord Prashant
July 13, 2006   10:35 PM PDT
 
haih...people nowadays...trying to compare whos prettier..dun worry jolene..i really think she's really ugly man..big time bad job..and i told her that also...all i wanted to read was a nice story, and i end up reading about some idiotic bitch comparing her so called beautiness to other people..and the worst part is, some of her stupid friends can actually agree with her...blind idiots.
meldee
July 13, 2006   10:32 PM PDT
 
as i said, jo. people who put other people down to make themselves look and feel better are the worst kinds of people there are. i mean, fair enough if you feel that you have shortcomings--everyone does! but there is no need to gloat and preen and be so downright bitchy about it. (some) kids these days. no respect.

i'm proud of you, babe.
Leech
July 13, 2006   10:31 PM PDT
 
sigh, she's still young and immature? don't take her words to heart, or too seriously. =\\

*hugz*
munkit
July 13, 2006   10:28 PM PDT
 
JOLENE OWNAGE!! marry me please
shanta
July 13, 2006   10:26 PM PDT
 
I think you're gorgeous. Not only because you look great, but you've got a personality that speaks volumes about the sort of brilliant and witty person you are, and I guess people get upset when they cannot match up to all of that.
siowmay
July 13, 2006   09:16 PM PDT
 
such entry that the girl wrote should jus keep it to herself.Asking the whole wide world who is prettier really make her feeling better eh?
question such as do i look nice in this top is even better than do my face tell u that i'm pretty.

sigh..
JoyceTheFairy
July 13, 2006   08:17 PM PDT
 
Two words for you, Jayelle.

"Fuck it."

I think you have a nice way of writing and portraying yourself which more then makes up for whatever else you lack.
Jasemaine
July 13, 2006   06:39 PM PDT
 
Hi Jolene, I've always been a loyal reader of your blog but rarely leave any comments. This time, I HAVE to leave you a message, telling you that I'm definitely on your side. The way she attacked you on her blog proves her personality to be ugly. It's just wrong. I personally don't care about a person's look but if his/her personality is bad, really bad.. urgh.. it's a huge turn-off.
Jon
July 13, 2006   05:30 PM PDT
 
W00t!! Bitch fight :D. I'll happily indulge in further fence sitting here and amuse myself ^^, who knows, Najib might just be my long lost father.
Dr. Tan
July 13, 2006   05:24 PM PDT
 
I was surprised when someone sent me that link and told me it was you. It left a bad taste in my mouth that someone could do such an unprovoked assault in you. Or anyone, for that matter.
Albert Ng
July 13, 2006   05:19 PM PDT
 
Well, we'd still read you for your writings. It's not like you guys are in a fashion contest or anything. The testimonials seem to be done in a "I didn't know I'd be quoted" fashion anyway.
Fashionasia
July 13, 2006   05:14 PM PDT
 
chin up girl...
Remember "The Ugly Duckling" story ?
Well, know what? Its a true story...
:>
Most importantly, let your inner beauty shine...

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