Entry: I'm Sorry I'm Fat Friday, October 08, 2004



Obviously I know that some people do not actually bother 'initiating legal proceedings' against each other over trivial issues.

I just made a bit of noise about the fact that he actually used such terms to make me understand that he doesn't want to be mentioned in this blog of mine.

I already said, if he used terms like 'do you mind..?' or 'please' or 'if it's okay.....'...Obviously I would have taken down the bit and be equally nice.


But apparently someone else told me, I'm supposedly very childish(and fat) for thinking that he's actually serious about it.

I was just being sarcastic.

I really hate making enemies, but it looks like I'll have a few.
And I usually patch things up with people whom I have fought with.

I actually cooled down and was thinking of approaching him and telling him that i've cooled down, hope he has too, and let this blow over.

But nope. Some random blog stalker comes and leave a comment. But maybe this random blog stalker has nothing to do with him. If he does, .. well, whatever.

Maybe I'll go and be friends again. 

If I don't start talking to him, I'll actually have a person that despises me as much as I despise him.

Think I'll go drop by *Aimoo now.

Coz it's the right thing to do.


*Aimoo is the forum for the a-levels editorial board to post stuff. I'll find him there.
The letter                           Click the cross---> [Sigh]
I don't know if your e-mail add is valid as it is. But I'll give it a shot.

Anyway, liu Hua, I think I should be speaking to you directly. I don't want to make enemies with anyone. And I definitely do not want to start. I understand that I've been making alot of assumptions on my blog. But there's never been any name calling and such and it's all based on abit more rational defensive points.

Obviously I've offended you in a way or another, but it was all in jest. And I have to admit that I was quite pissed that you didn't ask me to remove it nicely but saying things like legal proceedings straight away.

I received a very insulting comment on my blog today. In The supposedly entry to you from some random stranger. It made me think. Do i want to go on like this? Harbouring a you-hate-me-i-hate-you-more attitude?

I thought this time I don't have to bother patching things up because it's not a close friend. I usually patch things up because I don't like having to feel uncomfortable around certain people.

I just don't know why you were upset about the you accidentally terkena-ing my boobs. It was nothing..=) I'm this type of person, I'll joke alot about it.. pretend to enjoy it .. you know that kind of Boy-to-boy mentality? Yea.. I'm this weird girl who makes dirty jokes and so a little boob incident is just another joke to me.

I hope you didn't take it too seriously.

And all those comments from my friends.. it's just them.They have this sense of togetherness, we stand up for each other. I was feeling mad.

But now I'm over it, and in time to come they will be over it too.
But lets just clear this up between you and me. K?

regards, Jolene

   9 comments

jayelle
October 11, 2004   12:38 AM PDT
 
ah well, but maybe i shouldn't have put his name down in the first place. but like i said, what's the use? he didn't reply my email.:(
jUlie
October 10, 2004   10:18 PM PDT
 
hehe you're so nice considering he was the one who started the whole thing in the first place.. i think HE owes you an apology.. but anyway, we need more people like you around.. yay for you jolene =)
jayelle
October 10, 2004   05:32 AM PDT
 
oi k hong. wrong guy la.. i wrote this letter for another guy.

the guy who insulted me i also dunno who. don't care so much!

but thanks for ur concern:)
k' hong
October 10, 2004   05:20 AM PDT
 
to that stupid dumb fuck who is shittin around out there, stop fuckin around here.....(the pangsai asshole who insulted jolene) jolene is the besT!! and i dun make comments often, when i DO i really mean it... she already offered a peace, and if u still insist of actin like a 5 years old baby, i shall help u grow up in my own waysS, which u will never wish to experience it.....
jayelle
October 10, 2004   02:31 AM PDT
 
c: well, i tried. thanks for understanding:)

panda: i know.:) i will.

aud: maybe our skin too thick adi.:)

ali: thanks. *hugs* ..:) but what to do? I sms him also he never reply. Email also never reply.
ali
October 9, 2004   06:37 PM PDT
 
Haha! GoOd for you Jolene... Go patch things up! You're really a nice girl... I'm so glad that you're my friend... So proud of you! ^^ *respect*
aud
October 9, 2004   04:44 PM PDT
 
wah y all this ppl so sensitive wan? *hugs for jolene*
~pandachan~
October 9, 2004   01:47 AM PDT
 
jolene...
dun care bout that ass....
juz be yourself and cheeer up..
c
October 8, 2004   09:46 PM PDT
 
i'd say that some ppl are just not sarcastically intuned. that's why they didn't get what you were trying to say. more like.. they weren't reading between the lines of your blog post and they just don't know how to understand sentences that are written in a sarcastic tone. but then again. i'm quite a sarcastic person. maybe that's why i understood.

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